Wow! It’s been MONTHS!
Posted by runningawaywithme
So, I have majorly slacked on blogging. BIG TIME. I have been so busy with life in general and my new goal of competing. Yes, I said competing. Competing in bodybuilding- Figure to be exact. I spent 2013 bringing my nutrition in check and building muscle. I went through a solid bulk for most of the year (where you up your calories and weight train like mad ) and in December I hired a coach. I have been working with Shane ever since (Shane Heugly and his wife Tiffany) aka Team Heugly. It was the best decision I have ever made, as I would have never been able, as a first timer, to do this contest prep on my own. So many variables to take into consideration and just was not knowledgeable enough to do it on my own. This journey has taught me many MANY things not only about myself, but about dieting/nutrition, weight training and the industry. It has been a long 5 months so far, but well worth the blood,sweat and tears. I am currently 3 weeks out from my very first competition (I will be competing down in Philly) and things have started to get pretty tough, I won’t lie…this industry is NOT for everyone that is for sure and it certainly takes a HUGE amount of discipline to do it.
I get a lot of questions from people asking me how I do it, to..do you really want to look like a man? To which I want to take a few lines to answer to this. First of all, how is it ok to ask a woman if she is ok looking like a man? Really? First of all, I am VERY feminine and I look NOTHING like a man. I have muscles, does that equal me looking like a man? NO. Second, you are RUDE. Third, how about saying something like “Wow girl, that takes a lot of dedication and hard work, and although the look is not for me, I appreciate the hard work you put in.” Seriously..I just don’t understand people sometimes. My look is NOT for everyone NOR do I look down on people who do NOT look like me, but understand this..I have feelings and they do get hurt, but THANK GOD I do not take it personally or let it get me down. This is a lifestyle that I chose ON PURPOSE because it’s who I am and it’s what makes ME ME ME feel good. NOT YOU, but ME. So stop knocking on what I eat, how much I work out and how much water I drink (or not drink, I need to work on that water intake BIG time). I don’t bag on you for your intake of fast food and garbage OR lack of exercise do I? No. Alrighty then. Have a little respect, please and thank you.
Today is my first day of hi/lo cycling (which simply means 2 days of low carb and 1 day with higher carbs and then back down to 2 days etc..) so far so good, but, It’s only my first day. I also had my cheat meals removed from my plan as well (Which means that once a week I was able to eat whatever I want including dessert for one of my meals) WHICH is HUGE for me, but I can do this. I want to do well and I trust in my coach and his plan for me. Trusting in your coach really is a huge deal and that is why you really have to make sure you do your research when or if you decide to hire one. I have such a great report’ with him and he always makes me feel like I am his only client (which I certainly am not). I really appreciate the fact that he allows for me to give my input and never ever makes me feel like I am being a nuisance. My coach gives me my nutrition plan along with my workout plans, so all I have to do is FOLLOW THE PLAN (which is something he says to me often! lolol). Takes all the guess work out of everything this prep, and one less thing I have to stress or worry about.
So What is figure?
Go have a look for yourself.
I work out 6 days a week at about 2.5/3 hours a clip. Depending on what bodypart and how much cardio I’m doing. Let me preface this by saying that I am a MOM first and foremost. As most of you know I have 3 kids (12,13, and 16) who have VERY busy lifestyles. I also work 3 nights a week – 2/12’s and 1/8 hour shift. So I am VERY busy. It’s about how badly I want this (you or anyone has to decide how much you want it and then make it happen) and how disciplined I need to be to make it happen. It’s the same with running or cycling or any sport you do. It’s about making the time to get it done. No excuses. Period. Am I perfect? NO! Have I had slip ups? MANY!! Have I missed days? YES!! I am human and I make mistakes too. It’s about how you pick yourself up, dust off and keep moving forward. You just have to, as my coach says “MOVE ON” no need to stay stuck in your slip up. Just move the hell on!
Nutrition is so very key in this whole thing. You can go to the gym and workout and do your cardio, BUT, if your nutrition is not spot on, then it really is all for not. Anyone can go and workout, but how willing are you to commit to the dietary changes that need to happen as well? In this day and age there are MANY different options out there to choose from, however, at the end of the day it always is truly about- calories in vs calories out. Plain and simple. Calories are calories. I eat 6 times a day because that is what works for ME. I like eating a lot and my body runs better that way and quite frankly, is used to it at this point. So I typically eat every 6 hours. I have a set plan that I follow that has my portions and food choices on it. I really do like not having to plan out things myself. I am looking forward to when I have a little more wiggle room and can get a little more creative, but, I am ok with things now.
Well..that’s all for now! Time to eat!